A lot of people are under pressure of what to eat, what to wear, who to date or get married to.
Matt.6.31 – Therefore take no thought, saying, What shall we eat? or, What shall we drink? or, Wherewithal shall we be clothed?
Have you clocked a certain age still single and then your family and friends are starting to worry for you? Well guess what? It’s normal, it is not peculiar to you alone. This phase you’re currently in? Some people went through it too
You are young and almost all your friends are in a relationship, they keep posting and chilling and it’s starting to look like oppression? Guess what again? It is normal
Look, it’s normal for people to try to talk you into being in a relationship, sometimes it’s out of their love for you.
Look, never go into a relationship because your friends are in it or because you feel time is not on your side and then you make hasty decisions, calm down. You’ll eventually get married and have that wonderful relationship, but if you take any hasty decision, you might end up regretting it and wishing you were single and by that time? Trust me, you are on your own.
So what do you do?
Matt.6.33 – But seek ye first the kingdom of God, and his righteousness; and all these things shall be added unto you.
Trust the process, God loves you and he knows you need a spouse, he was the one who instituted marraige and marraige is to be enjoyed not to be endured, trust that God is preparing the best for you.
See all these emotional compability with a guy that others are having now and you feel you’re missing out? You will still have them but it’s best if it’s with the right person. Just like ive written in my previous post, take time to develop yourself, you are having these craves because you are not busy, get busy developing yourself. Truth is, if you are a person of purpose and impact, trust me they will rush you. So your priority is to live the best of your life with or without a spouse.
I know you’re old enough but do you have all it takes? If yes, then trust me on this, God is bringing the best your way. Don’t give in to pressure, be at peace within yourself. Loving yourself and trusting God. Truth is, if you rush in, you might rush out.
Do you want to enjoy your marriage? Have you seen the life of some married people you admire? Then calm down, none of them got there by rushing or being under pressure. Take your time to look at the lives of these people, read their books, watch their videos and learn
How then do you deal with external pressure
° Be at peace within yourself, build a defense mechanism against wrong pressure
° Trust God and His word, trust that God is bringing the best for you. “all things work together for good to them that loves God and to them that are called according to HIS purpose”
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